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Voices of the Jobless
Do we have anyone in Congress who was unemployed for awhile? Probably very few. For the rest – they have no idea how debilitating it is to not be able to get a job. In our culture an awful lot of self-worth is tied to your job.
Meanwhile all the effort in D.C. revolves around spending cuts, which will make this worse. They talk about jobs all the time, but the effort is all cuts.
what he does to better understand the plight of those stuck in poverty or without jobs. He was able to dispassionately tick off his past work starting charter schools which he said were, in part, for homeless youth. But I detected no empathic understanding of what millions of people in this country are struggling with. There may be others in Congress who have a genuine, emotional understanding of the struggles of so much of the middle class, and of course those living in poverty, but I’m guessing very few.
he has hung out with the kids and faculty. I think he is genuine
Probably sympathy, but someone who is the 6th richest man in Congress cannot empathize with the unemployed. It isn’t a criticism of our electeds, it is a fact.
Polis started his charter schools and may have socialized with the students and faculty, but he didn’t empathize with them. Just as the unemployed can’t empathize with the pressures and stress in Polis’ life.
the ability to empathize, if one has it, crosses many barriers and income/wealth is one that must be crossed. As is ethnicity. Surely many of us developed empathy for Holocaust victims, for those impoverished in Appalachia, for Haitians, for those in New Orleans following Katrina. I even empathize with Tea Puppets.
Sympathy, while it can be a trait that leads to empathy is less helpful for sure.
I’ve always held a high bar, personally, on empathy. I can’t empathize with Katrina victims because I’ve never been in their situation (i.e. house blown away by a big fucking storm). I have no idea what it would be like to be in a death camp. I’ve never experienced diphtheria, chronic hunger nor rape and torture.
I can empathize with unemployed people because I have stressed about where my next meal will come from and how am I going to pay my rent. I can empathize with minorities because living overseas I was a minority for a long time and discriminated against. I can empathize on battling addiction.
I’m betting Polis has never worried about where his next meal will come from, nor worried about paying his rent.
He can sympathize, but not empathize, IMHO.
When I was a young man in 1965-1966, I worked at El Paso Ambulance Service inTexas. During my 2-3 yr tenure I responded to no less than a dozen incidents of what was then called “coat hanger abortions”.
Yes, I felt sympathy you these frightened young women, many very close to my age, but I also felt something else. I don’t know whether you would define it as empathy, since obviously I was not at risk myself.
What I did feel made me a life long advocate for women’s choice and for womens rights in general. I have lived, argued, and voted that position all my life. I am 64 now.
As I rode to the hospital with these scared teenagers, who knew they were in deep trouble with their parents, their church and who thought they might be dying I developed what I call empathy. It may not fit your cut and dried deffinition of empathy, but it has sufficed for me.
I don’t doubt for a second Rep. Polis’s empathy. At least, not by my definition.
Also, you confused me with my father, he’s Car 51, I’m 31 – big difference 🙂
Empathy comes from powerful emotions shared with another. You shared the fear, shame and pain of those young women and connected with them through care and healing.
Empathy is not cut and dried for anyone. Personally, when I see rich people do good deeds I see them as sympathetic to causes and not empathetic to people.
Sorry about confusing you with your dad 🙂
When I was working on my MA in counseling we were told that the one thing you never say to a client is, ” I know just how you feel”.
We were taught to think about “empathy’, in this sense, in terms like this.
We have all walked in our forests of pain. They were different forests, but we all remember how we felt while we were there.
I can empathize with the pain you are feeling, without haveing been in the exact same situation.
That explaination seemed to work both for me and for my clients in the real world. I offer it now with great respect.
I agree with the below comments by grey, I would welcome you as a friend
I do not know Jared so I can not speak well about his ability to empathize.
But, I know empathy involves much more willingness to feel for others than you seem to be willing to admit even for yourself. I empathize with you because I do know folks who, like you, think if they haven’t experienced it themselves they can not empathize.
You don’t know me except through words on a screen.
But, I do appreciate the sentiment.
based on the totality of the ‘words on a screen’
I think your definition of sympathy and empathy is correct. It doesn’t make Polis a bad person for not being able to feel empathy with the poor, just like he’s not a bad person if he can’t feel a stabbing pain in his eye. It’s just a word, but it means something, and we should use it correctly.
Where are you?
Car 54 is one of those liberal, Hollywood types that my family would just rather pretend didn’t exist, thank you very much.
Car 71 is my granddaddy. Talk to him about empathy and he’s say, “If ya can’t drink it, it ain’t worth it”…
Didn’t mean to divert into pyshcological musings here.
David’s point in the original post is relevant – Congress has little sympathy and even less empathy towards the general public, the middle class and the working class.
Any Congressman who says they have empathy for the unemployed or downtrodden, I doubt.
with his stated desire to quadruple the size of a house is doing worse than not demonstrating empathy. He is showing that he can not even understand that there are many having trouble making ends meet. He is saying “Let them eat cake”
Romney is and has been “unemployed,” he has a very clear understanding of what it’s like to walk in those Guccis.
Al Jazeera
Do you think Gaddafi will finally run for it? Or will he go down fighting wondering why the Libyan people have not rallied to him as they all “love” him?
This is serious, really “breaking news” The Post website did not have the info last night. I read about it on the KUSA website. The Denver Post hard copy this morning did not have it. Do they turn out the lights at six pm over there?
What ever happened to “Stop the Presses?”
I find this sad.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44…
I recall something in the late 70s. Pretty mild I think.
Pat Delany resigns over wife’s offensive e-mail to gold medal Olympian, Carl Lewis
And while resigning, also throwing wife under bus:
So, instead of taking the usual lame stream media will blow this out of proportion route, Delaney pretty much said… yep, even I realize my wife is a racist. Must be pretty chilly in the Delaney household these days, regardless of scorching summer temps.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/…
Congratulations to Jacqueline Carole Shumway, who is the 1st candidate approved on the November ballot at-large school board race. Shumway will now have the opportunity to be destroyed by DPS administration shill Happy Haynes.
http://www.denvergov.org/Clerk…
Frank E. Deserino and Roger Kilgore did not submit enough signatures yet to qualify to be crushed by Happy, but have until Friday to rectify the situation.
Happy has also not yet turned in signatures.
Those of us who do not live or vote in Denver have been thoroughly chastened about voicing (or even having?) an opinion about what goes on in Denver.
From now on, please keep these sorts of uninteresting and parochial announcements confined to DenverPols.
Thank you very much.
I came into this thread looking for boobies and all I get is…um, wait, sorry, I mean do you have a bathroom in here?
Though isn’t it your sin for reading and not mine for writing?
Also, I think I’ll demand that everyone’s response includes their full name and Denver address. The anonymity of this site is ruining America.
ProgressiveCowgirl
1 Muddy Horse Way
Denverish, Colorado
and reduces their fine/penalties by 2/3rds. The fines have been reduced from $48,700 to $15,707.61.
Bob Moore reports that Gessler claims Larimer County GOP was “merely negligent in it’s failure to oversee” Chairman Larry Carillo’s activities.
According to Luis Toro, director of Colorado Ethics Watch,
I know. What a surprise. The GOP Secretary of State cuts a Republican County Party a major break. Shocker.
“civic participation” was his top priority here and that his decision would have been exactly the same had this been the county Dems organization. Now if you’ll excuse me, it’s time to feed and water my invisible unicorn.
and let me know when bats start flying out of his ass. Should make for a great Youtube video.
we now have a new category of guiltedness.
“And, how do you plead?”
“Merely negligent, you honor.”
“It is so entered. Baliff, whack . . . er, I mean, gently tap . . . his . . . “
Dogs at work – mine flunked!
If my students were allowed to bring dogs into school, I would literally quit that day.
crushing their creativity. And you wonder why David can’t hire a top-notch programmer with an ad on craigslist.
If they are service dogs performing a task for a person with a disability.
🙂
so to speak, until they’re allowed to bring “companion” and “therapy” dogs, or those miniature ponies that get to ride on airplanes, into the classroom. Imagine the word problems sxp can formulate using the packs of therapy dogs and prancing horses as examples. This is truly a win-win-whinny situation and should not be mocked.
There are no miniature ponies. Ponies are already ponies and thus small. Miniatures are horses, as they are bred to mimic the proportion and temperament of a horse rather than a small pony.
…wait, were we talking about something not horse related? Sorry. You pushed the “repository of equine facts” button.
on those little guys.
But miniature ponies are even smaller than regular ponies or the miniature horses. They’re suitable for middle school classrooms.
The smallest breed of pony, the Shetland Pony, is larger than the Miniature Horse.
But before the miniature horse fully matures, isn’t it a miniature pony? The kids can take the mini horse to college with them, but the mini pony works well in the public schools for the students who need them to get by.
Baby horses are foals. A girl one is a filly. A boy one is a colt. So a baby miniature horse would be a miniature horse foal or a miniature horse filly or miniature horse colt. A pony foal would be, say, a Shetland Pony filly or a Connemara colt.
A pony is any horse under 14.2 hand in height at the withers (top of the shoulder, a hand is 4″) EXCEPT for certain breeds considered horses at any size, such as the Miniature Horse or the Icelandic Horse.
See, you provide a valuable service here on Pols, no matter what they say.
So the miniature horse foals can attend sxp’s classes. And he can teach the whole hand thing, which the children will find fascinating.
so there
By using a legal recruitment expert, you’ll be save yourself the instance that would have been spent search for the accurate applicants.
Otherwise, I bet loads of us would have clicked on your link.
….Deputy Mayor Cary Kennedy, that is!
She’ll be Mayor Kennedy
it’s been nice.
Fires, earthquakes, famine in Africa, hurricanes; all we need is pestilence.
We’ve got Michele Bachmann and Rick Perry, so maybe we already do have pestilence.
East Coast. Near DC
Capitol and Pentagon evacuated.
5.8
http://earthquake.usgs.gov/ear…
Probably truer than he’d like to admit.
http://capsules.kaiserhealthne…
Why Are Finland’s Schools Successful?
Interesting article and it does lay out the big differences with our system, and the greater success they have seen. But nothing about what makes it so successful.
http://www.care2.com/causes/su…
by Amanda Marcotte, RH Reality Check
Separating church and state? Pshah.
Texas money politics as usual? Yeeehaaa!
http://www.kbtx.com/home/headl…
I don’t know what the patent laws are regarding vaccines, and when a generic can be released.
There is a competitor which covers fewer strains of HPV, but I don’t think it’s significantly cheaper, and being later to the game, long term data on persistence of immunity lags.
DDM is right though, this had nothing to do with anybody’s health, it’s about chits for Perry’s Gucci loafer wearing buddy.
The more salient point is the right-wing notion that vaccinating teens against a sexually transmitted disease will, to paraphrase MOTR’s sig line, turn young girls into wanton harlots with insatiable sexual appetites. After all, seatbelts and airbags only encourage car accidents, right?
Yes.
HPV is not a gender specific disease. Nor is harlotry.
If we keep up this rating inflation the blog will start to look like Zimbabwe’s economy.
only, the sex-change one, not the island one.
where’s Brownie ? Send him in !